Dear Ms. Bitch

I hate being around my cousin because her life is so much better than mine. She has a great job even though she never finished high school. She and her fiance have two beautiful kids between them and one on the way. She seems to have everything. I feel like I have nothing in comparison. I’d rather not even be around her but my family is so small that if I choose not to attend family events, it’s will be obvious I’m not there. I’m just sick of seeing her with green grass when all I have are weeds.

My best friend and I are in a fight. She holds grudges against things that were not my fault. I changed how I was every time she asked. I dye my hair a lot, and she throws hissy fits that I don’t keep it my natural blond. She insults me left and right, and LOVES trying to get my siblings into trouble. A few weeks ago she yelled at me for ‘blowing her off’. I had to take my great-grandmother to the hospital, and I couldn’t hang out. She says I’m not being a good friend because I don’t put her as a first priority.

I am manic depressive, so during my lows, I spend days at a time where I don’t leave my room, let alone my house. And she yells at me because I don’t call her during those times. And on top of that, I take care of my 88 year old great-grandmother, and my 65 year old disabled grandmother. We’re starting college, and I’m going in spring, and she’s starting this week. When I tried to call her, she ignored me. For a week she ignored me, now she does this a lot. If something ignores her, she will ignore me, even when I’m standing next to her, begging for her to talk to me, she’ll smirk and tell the people around us how horribly I was treating her. She doesn’t seem to care if she makes me cry. So my friend tells me this morning why she was ignoring me. Because when I was at the dog park with her I answered a phone call from my 12 year old sister, who needed to go to the doctor, and left before her. I apologized before I left, and explained, my mother can’t take my sister, because she was with my great-grandmother at a dentist appointment.

So now I’m debating on what to do. Should I apologize again? Or should I take my other friends advice and end it.I have four people telling me to end it, and be done with her, but I don’t want to start a bigger fight.

A long time ago, I used to be such a party girl. I was always in trouble or a part of some drama. I’ve been arrested a few times. Two years ago I finally made some changes to my life. I got back in school and quit drugs. Now I’m someone I can be proud of. But most of family and friend

I went out with a guy and for the two months we went out my “friend” kept telling me to break up with him because he was a loser and a loner . Eventually we broke it off and now we don’t speak. My “friend” is now all over him. She hits him and plays with him. I think she was just trying to take him from me because when we broke up he said that it was because a whole lot of shit. I think it was because my “friend” was putting shit in his head about me. She is known to be a bitch and i am really fucking pissed about it. So a couple of days ago another friend to asked out this boy but the boy said no. my “friend” had told her that i was saying shit about her and that is why he said no. I had never even spoken to the guy. So i confronted this “friend” and asked her about it and she said she had not been saying anything about me or to him. I don’t know if i should still be her friend or just ditch her because lets face it…she is a… BITCH.